December holidays!

"We choose life, and we forgive.", said survivor from Mumbai attacks.

We ought to think about how forgiving are we in our lives after reading this this morning.

I have just started on the book "How to win friends and influence people". So far sounds good except for some examples that I do not really understand. They like to quote life examples of world leaders.. wo dou bu dong ta men shi shui..but still they are good examples. Will summarise the few points that picked up after reading. Jin qing qi dai....

两首以夫妻为题材的歌

两首以夫妻为题材的歌...both are theme songs of dramas quite meaningful



This is from taiwan drama shi jian lu (some show N years ago i think its during my sec sch days haha) and recently has been used in Jack Neo money no enough 2 ...super gan ren la



江蕙--家后作词：郑进一/陈维祥　作曲：郑进一



有一日咱若老　

找无人甲咱友孝　

我会陪你坐惦椅寮　

听你讲少年的时阵　

你有外摮吃好吃丑无计较　

怨天怨地嘛袂晓　

你的手我会甲你牵条条　

因为我是你的家后阮将青春嫁置恁兜　

阮对少年跟你跟甲老人情世事已经看透透　

有啥人比你卡重要阮的一生献乎恁兜　

才知幸福是吵吵闹闹等待返去的时阵若到　

我会让你先走因为我会呒甘　

放你为我目屎流有一日咱若老　

有媳妇子儿友孝　

你若无聊拿咱的相片　

看卡早结婚的时阵　

你外缘投穿好穿丑无计较　

怪东怪西嘛袂晓你的心我会永远记条条　

因为我是你的家后阮将青春嫁置恁兜　

阮对少年就跟你跟甲老人情世事嘛已经看透透　

有啥人比你卡重要阮的一生献乎恁兜　

才知幸福是吵吵闹闹等待返去的时阵若到　

你着让我先走因为我会呒甘　

看你为我目屎流

This song is from one of my fac local drama Mars vs Venus... the director uses a lot of interesting quotes to highlight the differences btw man and woman ... quite you mo.. and nt only the show itself, the theme song is as meaningful as well...

幸福双人床

主唱: 石欣卉

一张双人床 两个人的剧场

快乐和悲伤 同一时间亮相

他不够浪漫 她又太多幻想

当恨起对方 所有的好全都遗忘

相爱的双方 像海洋和沙滩

不能完全占有 却更离不开对方

他渴望温柔 她需要宽厚肩膀

虽然有时想太理所当然

幸福并不只有单一的答案

争吵可能是其中必备的一项

爱如潮汐涨落中 惊喜不断

关键在你怎么去欣赏

别让双人床中间隔着孤单

多想想换成对方有什么期盼

没有人天生就对爱情擅长

幸福双人床 两个人才温暖

情感和表达之间的微妙关系

最近在读一本叫做“20几岁， 可以改变女人的一生 ”的书本。。。短短一个星期里， 我在路途上阅读的时间就可以让我读到几乎一半了。读到至今， 我发现我可以改善的还有好多好多。 并且它会让人觉得这些调整是可以做到，而对我的将来有着帮助的。 不止是我，或许我周围的人也会有帮助。我也意识到我周围的人好多都做到了， 但是也有很多和我一样年龄的女生都还没做到。有机会， 有兴趣的话。。可以跟我借来读。。它的印刷的很精美， 保证读了不会闷。。

这是其中一段

“人们普遍认为， 只有在高兴时才会笑， 即“快乐”这种情感是 “笑”的先提条； 但在感情变化的时候也可以笑， 而且也能使人心情愉悦。 只是人来大脑的这种特殊功能鲜为人知， 因此， 即使没有值得高兴的事情， 也应该经常哼唱一首好听的曲子。 日子平淡， 也要保持微笑， 这样抑郁的心情就会烟消云散， 这是多么容易做到的事情！因此， 转换一个念头， 就能拥有一个简单而平常的笑容， 请保持一天的好心情。

有一个有趣的现象，如果一个人用心工作的画面背后，配上悲伤的音乐， 那么主角就会显得疲惫， 人们通常会以为这是一出悲剧； 相反的， 在同样的画面背后，配上愉快地音乐，就会凸现主角的勤劳， 预示他将来会成功。因此，我们应该为自己奏响人生道路上的background music。， 那么这场纪录人生旅途的电影， 就会在愉快的背景音乐下迎向美好的结局。 既然如此，如果能快乐地度过每一天，谁会感到不幸福呢？”

道理很简单， 那就是选择快乐

unfoUNDed childHood photoS from poPo house

题外话

I created a collection of the photos i taken with my colleagues in Wai Gao Qiao Venture...these are the jing hua photos that we have taken during our chinese new year steamboat, luxurious ktv session, birthday celebration, last meeting with my female colleagues and the last day of work...although this is very simple to do using picasa but i think it has summarise all the days at work .. basically I attached this doc and send it with a thank u email to my colleague when i back in Sin... and was glad tt they liked it..:) i m glad tt i did it for them

Main course is here la..

My 阿姨 and I ...can say is my 3rd mummy lor...(1st one of cos my real mummy and gugu mama lor) lol... she used to buy me lots of educational books and taught me lots of things... lots of stories from her when i always complained tt " ah yi wo shui bu zhao" hahah





This is a baby boy???
all these dont look like me meh ??? hahah this is my cousin who is one week younger than me.. we were at someone's wedding dinner


I found out all these photos at my grandma house when i visited her when i came back...den i took them down with my phone camera.. din wan to take it from her ...let popo admire them when she is bored hahaha...quite a few of them i dint see b4 lor esp the one i took with my 3rd mummy.. i dun rem i keep any photos tt i took with her... well i guess this is e 1st in my memory ...

other than photos... i have my soft toys to share abt my childhood! this is BABY MINNIE! with xiao wu gui by her side hahah.. i used to have a baby minnie soft toy when i was young but because my nose cannot tahan furry stuff den in the end i dunno where it went to...when i saw this baby minnie at disneyland I felt e urge in my heart tt i wan this toy even though i know its meant for babies hahhaha cos when u press e ear of e minnie got the sqeak sqeak sound...

i love this minnie until i will pat it like a baby when i feeling sad ..omg ... i m glad its with me by my bed now ..:) and its taking care of my xwg!


wondering where do i start my soft toys craze rite? that was during shanghai where my nose din give me any problems at all.. and we were feeling cold and it feels good to have something to hug .. let me intro u

From Left: my funny rabbit and my roomie's doggie ...wow i din know they look so loving
From Left: Hai bao ( mascot of Shanghai expo), my FUNNY! and doggie

FUNNY always look so sian... but the cute part is his SIAN look with his bigbig tummy..i will laugh at him due to his stupid look...

tadA! Assembling my new shelf

RED and WHITE combination! The white shelf is mainly assembled with e help of my daddy...budden the 3 red compartments that are being set up by me ! just a few steps of screwing and hitting makes me han liu jia bei lor..hahah..but i still enjoyed the fun of it..and my room looks more spacious and neat now le...i realised i did kept alot of books in my room ...even those teenage books i still cant bear to throw them away sia..
the red drawer is the tough one which involves the most number of parts...真有成就感

this show is definitely worth watching ... i laughed until siao and cry like siao also.. the main actress who acted as the Mother was really good in the show...at the funny parts she is cute...at the sad times.. she looks so lonely...there are more emtional parts than the 笑料...still it is a truly entertaining movie... throughout the movie i heard "tsk tsk tsk" sounds at he background whtn the kids did something 不孝 to the Mother.. 现场气氛的感染力也很强。GO bring ur mama and papa to watch ba...

anyway this is the 1st me going to watch preview it was so interesting to think that the actors are just sitting behind you watching themselves act on the screen haha.. and the encouragement they got at the end of the show is very direct...but i still shy dun dare to shake hands with Mother hehe... i guess they are very touched by 观众直接的支持..which is a very good start of showing of the movie ba..i guess ..imgining wad are e celebrities thinking haa..

Second round of packing since I came back

Yesterday I went Ikea with my family to get a shelf! this is the 1st time I experienced shopping the "ikea" style...wah at first it is like so ma fan that i have to locate the things that i wanted and note down their location...everything was going on quite slowly cos i didnt know what i wanted to get acty so i just decide on the spot... then the things i wanted and i saw from the catologue are quite hard to locate...plus the place very big i just went rounds and rounds...by the time i get the stock from the store... i m already feeling very warm liao...

stupid me stil bring jacket thinking it would be so cold in there...in e end tired like siao..

I spent this whole morning doing "summer cleaning" for the second time and I m tired like siao...managed to assemble the cabinets and chairs but i think e shelf itself i better wait for papa to do it with me ...lol...i cant find the hammer!..wl shall wait patiently for it to be set up later on ...show u all later:)

Realise that Complete Satisfaction Does not exist

Set your sights on being generally satisfied and generally happy, not on expecting every aspect of life to be perfect.

Complete satisfaction does not exist because everything can be improved upon. Those who accept this can appreciate what they have. Those who do not accept this can never appreciate what they have even as their circumstances improve.

Strive to improve. Don't try to be perfect.

-------Extracted from "100 simple secrets of happy people"