Celebrating the end of 2008

This is a new combination of people and still we still enjoyed ourselves. Tai hao le... this started from my craving for mala steamboat. And my wish came true before 2008 ends:) I quite miss eating steamboat ever since GIp.

Initally, I thought Jy and pf would be quite shy to meet new guy frens..but after yesterday after some warm up time, they should be quite finE.. jia you!During jc times, our class only had 5 guys, jian zhi jiu shi ge girls world...I am glad that i changed my course track from arts to engineering... the learning environment and the people i met are totally of different. They got different strengths and I hope after these few years I am able to "absorb" and apply the arts and science part of me. I got to admit that the "literature" part of me is more or less gone, considering my lack of practice..but I would still be able to appreciate lit work.

The year 2008 is a rather challenging year for me..Many excitements, tears and sweat..i think i can summarise these are all...成长的代价

There are a few things i would like to achieve in the year 2009

1. Get a good Job and cannot slack le
2. Know how to make smart decisions fast
3. Manage my time better (btw work and family) because working might be different

Cousin's Wedding

My GIP 篇

上海 篇



My Cooking 篇





The moment we get together 篇




Working 篇




Chinese new year in china 篇




School days 篇




Travelling 篇





Travel

Give Honest and Sincere appreciation

Something interesting here... people do things just in order to win some words of appreciation.. even the most understanding person would also need that from you.. do take note of these "xiao dong zuo" around. Here is a very interesting example.

"People sometimes became invalids in order to win sympathy and attention, and get a feeling of importance. For example, take Mrs. McLinley. She got a feeling of importance by forcing her husband, the President of United States, to neglect important affairs of state while he reclined on the bed beside her for hours at a time, his arms around her, soothing her to sleep. She fed her gnawing desire for attention by insisting that he remain with her while she was having her teeth fixed, and once created a stormy scene when he had to leave her alone with the dentist while he kept an a appointment with John Hay, his secretray of state."

December holidays!

"We choose life, and we forgive.", said survivor from Mumbai attacks.

We ought to think about how forgiving are we in our lives after reading this this morning.

I have just started on the book "How to win friends and influence people". So far sounds good except for some examples that I do not really understand. They like to quote life examples of world leaders.. wo dou bu dong ta men shi shui..but still they are good examples. Will summarise the few points that picked up after reading. Jin qing qi dai....

两首以夫妻为题材的歌

两首以夫妻为题材的歌...both are theme songs of dramas quite meaningful



This is from taiwan drama shi jian lu (some show N years ago i think its during my sec sch days haha) and recently has been used in Jack Neo money no enough 2 ...super gan ren la



江蕙--家后作词：郑进一/陈维祥　作曲：郑进一



有一日咱若老　

找无人甲咱友孝　

我会陪你坐惦椅寮　

听你讲少年的时阵　

你有外摮吃好吃丑无计较　

怨天怨地嘛袂晓　

你的手我会甲你牵条条　

因为我是你的家后阮将青春嫁置恁兜　

阮对少年跟你跟甲老人情世事已经看透透　

有啥人比你卡重要阮的一生献乎恁兜　

才知幸福是吵吵闹闹等待返去的时阵若到　

我会让你先走因为我会呒甘　

放你为我目屎流有一日咱若老　

有媳妇子儿友孝　

你若无聊拿咱的相片　

看卡早结婚的时阵　

你外缘投穿好穿丑无计较　

怪东怪西嘛袂晓你的心我会永远记条条　

因为我是你的家后阮将青春嫁置恁兜　

阮对少年就跟你跟甲老人情世事嘛已经看透透　

有啥人比你卡重要阮的一生献乎恁兜　

才知幸福是吵吵闹闹等待返去的时阵若到　

你着让我先走因为我会呒甘　

看你为我目屎流

This song is from one of my fac local drama Mars vs Venus... the director uses a lot of interesting quotes to highlight the differences btw man and woman ... quite you mo.. and nt only the show itself, the theme song is as meaningful as well...

幸福双人床

主唱: 石欣卉

一张双人床 两个人的剧场

快乐和悲伤 同一时间亮相

他不够浪漫 她又太多幻想

当恨起对方 所有的好全都遗忘

相爱的双方 像海洋和沙滩

不能完全占有 却更离不开对方

他渴望温柔 她需要宽厚肩膀

虽然有时想太理所当然

幸福并不只有单一的答案

争吵可能是其中必备的一项

爱如潮汐涨落中 惊喜不断

关键在你怎么去欣赏

别让双人床中间隔着孤单

多想想换成对方有什么期盼

没有人天生就对爱情擅长

幸福双人床 两个人才温暖

情感和表达之间的微妙关系

最近在读一本叫做“20几岁， 可以改变女人的一生 ”的书本。。。短短一个星期里， 我在路途上阅读的时间就可以让我读到几乎一半了。读到至今， 我发现我可以改善的还有好多好多。 并且它会让人觉得这些调整是可以做到，而对我的将来有着帮助的。 不止是我，或许我周围的人也会有帮助。我也意识到我周围的人好多都做到了， 但是也有很多和我一样年龄的女生都还没做到。有机会， 有兴趣的话。。可以跟我借来读。。它的印刷的很精美， 保证读了不会闷。。

这是其中一段

“人们普遍认为， 只有在高兴时才会笑， 即“快乐”这种情感是 “笑”的先提条； 但在感情变化的时候也可以笑， 而且也能使人心情愉悦。 只是人来大脑的这种特殊功能鲜为人知， 因此， 即使没有值得高兴的事情， 也应该经常哼唱一首好听的曲子。 日子平淡， 也要保持微笑， 这样抑郁的心情就会烟消云散， 这是多么容易做到的事情！因此， 转换一个念头， 就能拥有一个简单而平常的笑容， 请保持一天的好心情。

有一个有趣的现象，如果一个人用心工作的画面背后，配上悲伤的音乐， 那么主角就会显得疲惫， 人们通常会以为这是一出悲剧； 相反的， 在同样的画面背后，配上愉快地音乐，就会凸现主角的勤劳， 预示他将来会成功。因此，我们应该为自己奏响人生道路上的background music。， 那么这场纪录人生旅途的电影， 就会在愉快的背景音乐下迎向美好的结局。 既然如此，如果能快乐地度过每一天，谁会感到不幸福呢？”

道理很简单， 那就是选择快乐